Quoted from BougieLand

“Romance will bite you in the azz, blind you and make you stupid if you let it. You can’t be in love with love – it just doesn’t work out. Love the person, love the relationship… not the idea of them.

You have to take a step back from the emotion and the cocoa and the laughter and say – is this what I want? Is this going anywhere? Am I getting what I need or am I settling thinking he’ll eventually give it to me?” OneChele


About alaiyo0685

I'm a kind of quirky, pretty stubborn, way too opinionated, twenty-something, intellectual, introspective, queer, Black, female, in a polyamorous relationship, and this is where I try to figure out my life.

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