“Romance will bite you in the azz, blind you and make you stupid if you let it. You can’t be in love with love – it just doesn’t work out. Love the person, love the relationship… not the idea of them.
You have to take a step back from the emotion and the cocoa and the laughter and say – is this what I want? Is this going anywhere? Am I getting what I need or am I settling thinking he’ll eventually give it to me?” —OneChele