Still smiling over this bit of conversation with my friend yesterday

[We were talking about OkCupid adventures and mis-adventures, particularly around messaging. He was pulling the, “Well at least you’re getting messages!” card, and I was explaining that it would be far better to get no messages at all than to overwhelmingly get gross messages from creepsters.] 

EK: But you were able to wade through all of that to find a couple of good ones, huh?

Me: Yeah, I guess I was. [pauses] Oh, well, actually I messaged [Buddy] first, so I guess that doesn’t count.

EK: Wow! *looks puzzled*

Me: Does anything about me suggest that I would not be a person who messages people I’m interested in first? 

EK: *laughs* Now that I think about it, that makes perfect sense…


About alaiyo0685

I'm a kind of quirky, pretty stubborn, way too opinionated, twenty-something, intellectual, introspective, queer, Black, female, in a polyamorous relationship, and this is where I try to figure out my life.

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