I do try to be out to as many people as possible because I do think there is an invisibility problem to open relationships, and people assume that everyone they know is monogamous. So they only hear about open relationships when they fail. It implodes, you hear that they were open, so that must be why.
–Steve, as quoted in Peter Lawrence Kane’s “Polyamory is Alive and Well in SF” | The Bold Italic
(via Blog of a Caged Kitty)